In addition, another problem that children who are studying can see is memory loss. The reason for this is that the memory storage space in their minds is full. What we need to do is to remove the unnecessary memories that are full from the mind. Or forget them. Then the ability to do the necessary lessons with good memory will naturally arise. Also, when remembering lessons, we should remember them in a certain order and then we will have the ability to examine them all when necessary.
However, we will have to face various problems due to the lack of practice in doing any work according to a plan. That is, we will not be able to do the things we study without any order and do not carry out the lessons with a clear mind in a certain order, so we will not be able to do the work properly in an exam or a practical work related to the subject.
Likewise, even if you have completed your education well, whether through a degree or a certificate from a course or other certificate, it should not become knowledge that is limited to a piece of paper. You must definitely develop the ability to put the learned subject into practice. Otherwise, what happens is that when you put the knowledge into practice, you will have to carry the book you learned again. You yourself will be embarrassed or embarrassed. Children, do not accumulate unnecessary thoughts in your mind. Only absorb the necessary knowledge. This will also make your mind feel lighter. The Buddha said it this way,
Nā paresam vilomanī
Nā paresam kātha kathān
Attāno va avekkhaya
Kāthāni akatānicha
Do not think about what others have done or not done, but only examine what you have done and not done and correct your own mistakes ˜
However, the person in today's society keeps all the mistakes and shortcomings of others in his mind and suffers in various ways. This is an obstacle to his mental happiness and ease. Also, as I said earlier, unnecessary thoughts are an obstacle to his memory. For example, when you constantly think about the girl or boy you are dating, your memory power will naturally decrease. This is a great crime that you are committing against yourself. Why are you committing a crime against yourself? During your studies, engaging in unnecessary activities will also have adverse consequences for you. As your parents also say, avoid starting unnecessary and useless love relationships.
The human mind is an insatiable thing. It is very difficult to control the desires that arise in the human mind. Once we think we need something, we often try to get it, whether it is good or bad, and once we get it, we try to enjoy it. Without stopping, we run after it again and again. It is natural to have a mental breakdown or conflict when it is not achieved in some way. Love relationships are the best example here. Conflicts that arise when one party tries but does not get the desired love are a frequent story in today's society. We have also seen countless attempts to commit suicide. As students, you have not yet seen society properly. Also, when it is difficult to bear problems as a group that has not matured, many people see suicide as an answer. Also, when there is no advice or an adult to explain these matters, such tragedies naturally lead to such tragedies. So, if you live a good and successful life as a child, you may inherit a happy life in the future. So, do you also wait, thinking of unnecessary obstacles as happiness and allowing them to stand in your way? This is a matter that you should examine with your own mind. We should not try to destroy the human life that we have achieved through previous merits, but to make it successful.
Son, your father's alcohol use may be the reason for your memory loss. And if you also become addicted to that activity, your memory may also decrease. Think carefully. Why distort the memory and good memory that you have been given by birth? Why live like a madman?
In addition, another factor that hinders children's academic activities is the negligence and financial difficulties of parents. Your parents may be educated and intelligent. But if your family is constantly squeezed by financial problems, if the child cannot properly fulfill the necessary books and other educational needs, that is also a fundamental issue that children face.
Children, you also have a responsibility. Act with a good understanding of your parents' financial problems. Use the limited resources they receive for your education as properly as possible. Avoid unnecessary decorations and unnecessary trifles. Contribute to your parents' economy as much as you can. The hut you live in may be a hut. But you can also make it a royal residence.
There is another group of children. Their parents are considered to be wealthy. No matter how much those parents try to provide all the comforts for their child and direct them towards education, the child does not make any effort towards education. Do you belong to this group? Do you think that you can also live comfortably in the future with the wealth that your parents have earned through hard work. Why do you act on such decisions? Don't you think that your future can be dark through such decisions? You, my son, should build your future yourself. It is a way to instill in yourself a sense of self-satisfaction and self-esteem that comes from trying to stand up independently. What if you could later say with your head held high that I have progressed through my own efforts? Think. Achieve your goals independently. Make the most of the resources and blessings you receive.
I can write beautifully, sing songs, read books and understand, but even if I can do all that, why do I live like a fool?
Think. The mind will give you a powerful answer. Your mind will be a wise teacher for you. Then all you have to do is put your thoughts into practice. Listen carefully to what your teacher says and absorb it in your mind. Put it into practice correctly. Complete any task assigned to you in school, no matter how difficult it is, with effort. Just as you try to become a great hero by jumping from mountains that cannot be jumped, try to cross the great river called learning and stand like a hero in the face of the ocean you encounter.
Daughter, son, there is no task that you cannot do in this world. If you have the right guidance, you can reach the right place with courage and effort. Try to gain the necessary strength, courage and knowledge, both in your mind and brain, and stand before the future society as a very successful person. This is how you can show your true personality. You cannot become a hero by oppressing or bullying another person. There are examples in society that trying to dominate society with wealth or weapons is temporary. But the personality of a person who has the power to rule as a popular and useful person will be eternal. His popularity will be eternal.
Your mother and father have raised you with strong hands and feet. By doing so, you are not giving yourself to society to be criticized. If you carry a sword or dagger or behave corruptly in society, you are an inhuman.
Manan usasathithi manuso
A man with a high mind is considered a human being.
So how should a man of high intellect behave? You should ask yourself. The dog's job is to behave like a dog. A dog does it properly. But to what extent does a human try to do his job in a way that is befitting a human? When a human tries to do the job of an animal, we too become animals. Do you also try to be like that? Or do you achieve your goal of being a good child who respects humanity?
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