You are a coward when faced with a problem every time,

 You are a coward when faced with a problem every time, not because you cannot face that problem. It is because you do not know how to face that problem. The main reason for this is that the basic foundation of each of us has not been built correctly. Our parents are responsible for this. Stephen Glenn is one of the most talented and famous scientists in the world. He has done a lot of research related to medicine. He has also given many patients who were about to die the opportunity to see the light of day again and make their mark on this world. One day, during an interview with him, he was asked why you show great talent in your amazing research work. What were the special factors that influenced those extraordinary talents in your early life?

Then Stephen explained that the root of all these little skills is my mother. He gave an example to illustrate it. What is that?

One day, when I was going to take out a large bottle of milk from the refrigerator, my hands could not bear the weight of the bottle and the bottle slipped and fell to the ground. The bottle broke and the milk spread all over the kitchen. We all know what other mothers would have done at that moment. 

After scolding the child and sending him aside, the mother alone removed the broken glass bottle and the milk and washed the floor thoroughly. But my mother did not scold me. She said at once

—Son, you did a good job, you are a good magician, look at the river of milk in the kitchen. I have never seen such a beautiful river of milk˜

My mother told me this again, okay, now what was going to happen has happened. Now let's both of us get together and clean this up. Let's clean this up really well. Before that, do you want to jump into the middle of this milk river and have a swim? Do that, but remove the glass beads. Actually, I've already jumped into that milk river. Then my mother called me and said

"Son, when something like this happens, we should first take the things out and put them aside and wash them well. Then we should put those things in order again. So now we will do that work together."

So now my mother and I wiped up all the spilled milk with a piece of spinach. While doing so, my mother was giving me advice. My son, you couldn't lift this big milk bottle with your small hands because it was heavy and you didn't know how to lift it. Now fill a bottle with water and practice carrying it. Practice carrying that bottle carefully without dropping it on the ground. My mother gave me a lot of advice like this. After hearing all that, I got used to carrying a water bottle here and there without dropping it that evening. Because of the encouragement my mother gave me that day, I got a lot of courage to do a quick experiment today. Even if my experiment went wrong, I will learn something more from it. That is my The main reason for success in life.

If Stephen Glenn entered the right path in this way, why can't you develop in the same way? Our parents didn't give us all the opportunity to develop on our own, right? That's why we live in today's society under mental stress. Through that, not only they but the entire society will be in a depressed state. Why? If their ideas and anger are not fulfilled in that way, they will take revenge on the entire society. If we provide that opportunity, everyone living in this society will not have any opportunity to develop on their own. It would be good if we understand it well and act wisely.

We should explain to our children how to live in society and provide them with the opportunity to follow that path, but we should not go with them. If they are allowed to develop on their own, their personality will be developed well. Otherwise, Even if it takes 25 years, they will not develop a mentality that allows them to do their own work on their own. As those responsible for this, do we try to make our children feel like pets by scolding them and locking them up in our homes? Do we take a different approach, showing them the right path to develop on their own and pointing out their mistakes and helping them move forward? If we do that, those children will shine like a pillar of light that shines throughout the country.