A person living in the world always strives to possess many things that are visible to the senses.

 The mind is the root of every action performed by every living being in the world. There are two types of actions, white and black. They can be analyzed as good and bad, good and bad, good and bad, and merit and demerit. These two types of actions are

based on the mind. Therefore, the mind is the most important element of the six senses possessed by a living being. This should be known from this.

" Mano pubbangama dhamma mano settha manomaya

manasa che pasanne basativa karotiva

thatonam sukhamangveti khayava anapayini "

This is further confirmed by the Dhamma verse. The superiority and inferiority of the sharp knife that a person performs is also determined by the mental environment. A doctor cuts and wounds a patient with the intention of healing a patient and cuts and wounds a patient with the intention of harming someone, depending on the nature of this mental environment.

A person is engaged in various activities. At different times in his life, he has to perform various tasks related to it. The result of those activities can be for himself or for others. However, it must be said that the result is received by either party. Therefore, the work that causes the result must be pure. If it is impure, the result will also be bad. He alone can make the cause or the work pure. He can do it by applying his mind to the work he does. The opening paragraph of the UNESCO Charter is "War begins in the minds of men", so it is clear from this what the result of the mind and thoughts is.

Whatever the society, it can be transformed into war, terrorism, and degradation. In the same way, it can be directed towards the development, progress, success, enthusiasm, peace, and reconciliation of the society itself. A person who is engaged in multiple roles becomes anxious about what to do when he inquires about the actions of others. He thinks that all that discomfort is imposed on him from the outside world because he does not realize that all this is happening in his mind. If he does not realize it himself, then someone else should do it as much as possible.

Buddhism, which emphasizes the feeling of "I am mine" or "I am mine" as an illusory view, shows that one should give priority to oneself in discipline and liberation. The Buddha preaches that it is superior to establish oneself in virtue first and to establish others in virtue, and that one should first establish proper qualities and secondly to instruct others.

The verse of the Dhamma Pada, "Attanameva patham

patirupe nivesaye

atanna manusaseyya

na kilisseyya pandito"

This is indicated by the above-mentioned point. The person living in the world always strives to possess many things that are visible to the senses. The person who looks at others in comparison to others thinks that he should have the same wealth, money and house as others. Then he acts out of desire without achieving them. Then, not knowing that he has the rest, happiness, duties and responsibilities that he had, he loses them. Instead, he lives in discomfort, dissatisfaction, hatred towards the unhappy society. Thus, he realizes that the creator of his problems is not someone else but himself.

There are many problems that children have to face during their studies. Namely,

• Obstacles to schooling due to financial difficulties

• Problems with parental affection

• Problems with memory loss

• Not having someone to listen to one's problems

• Problems with love relationships

*** Problems with parental affection ***

From these problems, we must first ask about the problem of parental affection. This is a situation that is very common in today's society. Do the children who are born from their wombs receive the affection that their parents should give them? Do they address their daughter and son with affectionate words such as "daughter" and "son"?

"Daughter/son, come here, don't do that work. That work will harm you." Do parents today bring their children close to them and teach them these things with affection? No, right, Mom and Dad. If they did that, there would not be so many problems in this society. And you are not late. Explain everything to your child with love. Son, this is a bad thing, this is a good thing, do this, do not do this, make them understand with love and understanding. Then your child will appear in society as a good and intelligent man. Otherwise, if you only nurture the children you have given birth to with the thought that you will do whatever you want, you can only be a nominal mother or father.

To change this fact, let us try to become a good mother and a good father. Then every woman in this world will be a real mother and every father will be a real father.

But without that love, it is inevitable that every child will become a disgrace to the entire society. Today, many mothers and fathers in our country are accustomed to leaving their children alone and working abroad. Then who will take care of their daughter or son? It is like entrusting the work of a dog to a donkey. It is important to know that the affection and love that one deserves from a mother and father cannot be received from anyone else, but it must also be put into practice.