*** Obstacles to school attendance due to economic difficulties ***
Although it is necessary to breastfeed your child when he is young, this society has become so cruel, evil and insensitive that some mothers, due to their migration abroad, feed their newborn babies with formula milk. You may not have thought that this would have adverse consequences even if you are motivated by the future well-being of yourself and your child. But, Mom and Dad, this will cause great destruction to your child. When the parents are not around, who is the child's mother? Why are they not with me? Do they not love me? Such thoughts do not come to the minds of children through anyone's teaching. They will also find the answers to these questions themselves. Then they will naturally become people who hate their parents. Parents, it is your responsibility to make the child born of your blood a good person or a bad person.
Children cannot receive as much love and comfort from any other person as they receive from their parents. So, what you should do before getting married is to build a financial situation that is necessary for yourself, your family and your children to live well. By entering into marriage in such an unplanned way, the future of your children as well as your own life will become a dark, sad and boring situation.
Even if the mother of another family goes abroad and hands over the children to the father, the father will spend the money sent by the mother and act as a wasteful person. If he becomes an educated father, he can educate his children and lead a good life. Otherwise, the father will also lead a wasteful and promiscuous life, sending his children astray. When the mother returns home, she will have to regret everything and be more helpless than before.
*** Problems with love relationships ***
It is also a tragedy that children expect love from their family and parents from society that they do not receive. If the child is a girl, that will also be a reason for her destruction. Even though parents cannot bear such things, this happens as a result of the mistakes and omissions made in the beginning.
What do children do in today's society when they say they love? It is a practice without any purpose. That is, they are pursuing various sensual pleasures. Or they are victims of the unlimited desires of the lustful. Those love relationships will last as long as they can enjoy those desires. But after the adults find out or some other tragic fate, these love stories will end.
Daughter, son, you should honestly ask yourself,
Who do you love the most? Why do I love? What do I get from this love? How much does this hinder my educational activities? So, does this hindrance affect my future development? Am I doing this wrong? Am I doing this wrong consciously? Think. Why can't I get rid of this mistake? I need to make a way where I can enjoy all this every day, right? Is it possible to enjoy all the pleasures of life in the same way every day? If every girl and boy thinks about these things, they will realize that they are doing a futile task.
If a path is properly prepared, you can travel as far as you want without any obstacles. But the small potholes on that path make your journey a little difficult and also cause fatigue to the body. So, the first thing we should do is prepare the path we are traveling properly. Children, then try to achieve success in your journey from today. Use your knowledge as a friend in preparing your path. Then you will be able to reach your goal well. No one will be able to stop it.
Get the love, kindness, mercy, and compassion you need from within yourself. Think about what you desire as children. Write down the pleasures you desire separately and create a method for yourself to fulfill those desires separately.
• Keep your body beautiful.
• Do not listen to criticism from others.
• Be praised.
• Behave in society with higher knowledge than others.
• Be a leader in a group.
• Get your needs met.
• Receive parental love.
• Be an honest person in society.
One should try to fulfill all these hopes and dreams. By performing one's duties well, all these hopes will naturally be fulfilled.
What did Prince Siddhartha ask his father?
My father, if you insist on my staying in the palace, there are certain things that you must grant me. If you are able to grant me those things, I will remain in this palace forever. If you are unable to grant me those things, I will leave this palace and seek peace. Then King Suddhodana asked him what good thing he wanted, and he said, "Give me the opportunity to remain in this palace forever, without growing old, and without dying, while retaining this youthful beauty." If that is possible, I will remain in this palace forever. Hearing this, King Suddhodana said, "Son, I am unable to grant you the good things you ask for." "Therefore, I grant you permission to leave the kingdom."
Hearing this, Prince Siddhartha left the kingdom with the aim of finding his own liberation and leading others to the path of liberation. If he had left all his comforts and realized the ultimate truth of the world and made others understand that truth and brought happiness, then we should be able to fulfill our educational activities in the right way with the aim of achieving happiness in this life. We have not been able to do it because we have been hesitant.
Every person living in this world acts with the ultimate desire to attain his own liberation. But do they do the necessary work to attain their own liberation? What do they do to attain this liberation? We should be selfish in attaining our own liberation. But it should not be a nuisance to others and there should be mutual support. In all these and other matters, it was shown that parents How does affection affect children? There are many other issues that affect this issue. Among them, we should especially examine the issue of love.
The Kosalan king, who was in conversation with Mallika Devi, the chief concubine of the Kosalan king, asked her
Atthi nu kho te mallike
ko channe attana piya taroti
(Ko:sang)
Mallika, is there anyone else in this world who is dearer to you than you?
Naththi kho me maharaja
ko channe attana piya taroti
(Ko:sang)
O king, there is no one else in this world who is dearer to me than me
On hearing this, the Kosalan king was very pleased with Mallika Devi's knowledge. But that was not the answer the Kosalan king had expected. You must understand what it was. At the end of these matters, the Kosalan king After approaching the Buddha and revealing these facts to him, the Buddha preached this verse, explaining the nature of human life and the desires of people.
Sabba disa anuparigamma cetasa
nevajjaga piya matthana kavachi
evam piya puthu atta paresam
tasma na hinse param atta kamoti
(Ko:sam)
Even if one searches carefully in all directions, one cannot find someone more beloved than oneself. Therefore, if one loves someone, one refrains from doing harm to oneself and doing things that are harmful to oneself.
Since this is a sermon of the Buddha, it can be considered correct when examined.
Our children, who live at an age when the sun sets and the buds of flowers are destroyed by a great storm before they can bloom, are being destroyed by the sun and the buds of flowers are destroyed by a great storm before they can bloom. They have been blinded by illusion and are lost on a dark path. Who is showing them the right path and how is that right path shown? We need to examine this.
Dear daughter, son, you are still just a small lotus bud. How does that lotus bud, when the sun shines on it and it blooms, delight the hearts of every living being in the world? Similarly, if you live your life correctly in childhood, you can be an exemplary person to the entire world in the future. Your gender will not be an obstacle to that. All that is needed is the knowledge you acquire. You must acquire it with your own efforts. For that, you have to do only one thing. Your parents or siblings will provide all the necessities needed for learning. Also, your teachers and parents will properly explain to you how to do the learning process, as well as the path to follow and the path to avoid. So what is your task? It is simply to engage in the process of learning well. So why are you not engaging in that task? What are the problems that have influenced you not to engage in that task?
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