What is the only gift that all of us who are born into the world have received from birth?


 What is the only gift that all of us who are born into the world have received from birth? The power of thought to think carefully about good and evil and make decisions. But today, that power of thought has been distorted. Why? When the mental needs of the creature are not fulfilled by a group of desires, there is no action that they do not take to fulfill those desires. They do any work. But the result is very tragic.

We were all born into this universe to gain some understanding, live as good citizens through that understanding, and build a suitable mental environment for others to grow and develop through that exemplary life, but not to live our lives as if we were ourselves, fulfilling desires scattered beyond that, experiencing mental suffering. But isn't such a process happening in this socialized environment? We are not in a society that fulfills our physical needs today, but rather in a society that is dominated by mental needs. If our minds ask us for something that we can never fulfill, we try to run after it even though we know it. In the end, we live like a dog that has eaten meat and bones, remembering the consequences of the actions we have done at the moment of death.


If people who have lived and will live in the world today and in the past die, there is one person who is considered to have done the most important thing. That is, a minister named Basil Sahra. He was a very poor person by birth, but at the age of 27, he became very rich with the work he did. It was announced by the media in the countries where he is believed to have lived that he would give 20,000 pounds to every person he killed. However, this man did a very unusual thing in the entire social stratum to earn his wealth. At the age of 27, he worked as a gun dealer in Greece for a commission of 5 pounds a week. Then he thought that if I wanted to sell these weapons, I would first have to create a group of buyers. So what did he do? He first created a feeling in the hearts of the Greeks that the country should be protected from the Turks. The Greeks, who approved it without any question, bought guns and a submarine from Basil and Rogo. What did Zahoro, who increased his commission from them, impress upon the minds of the Turks? That the country should be protected from the Greeks. In this way, he created a great war between the two nations, and Basil Zahoro became a great rich man. Although we see that as a talent of his, he was not a person who lived a life of mental freedom at any time.


He met the woman he was going to marry one day while traveling on a train. But at that time, she was married to a crazy man who was about twice her age. Although she divorced him because of her religious beliefs and did not come with him, he remained married to him for 2 years after that man's death. That was when he was about 75 years old. She was 65 years old at that time. That is why it is said that his life was tragic, no matter how much wealth he earned. He had to overcome the fear in his heart to go to another country. That was because there were conflicts between many nations.


In the Spanish-American War, many lives were destroyed by providing a large amount of weapons to fight these great wars like the First World War, as a result of the sinful efforts of a person named Basil Zahra. No matter how many invitations he received through the media, he lived his life in silence without agreeing to any of them. However, he was poor by birth. But he became rich because of the cruel mental thinking he had in his mind. But a book written about his life is written with this name.


"The tombs built for the many human lives that died are the memorials built for him. The memorials written there are the death laths they climbed."


Why is this happening? One might say because of his poverty. But when you look at his life, you realize how much wealth is gained by destroying a person's life. You now know how he lived his life, no matter how rich he was. Similarly, in our country, a Sinhala, Tamil, Muslim, Christian religious conflict has arisen that did not exist before. What is the result of killing trees or criticizing each other's religions or blaming each other? There is no result. Everyone's life is only reduced.


How many days are we struggling to live? If you live for 80 years, won't you live for 29200 days? Then, is this amount of land that we have to live for that time not enough? No, enough. But due to a weakness in thinking, aren't we all struggling to die by creating conflicts? You think carefully, ask questions, and engage.


The person who wins is very happy. The person who is deprived of happiness suffers. The one who has recognized this well, the one who has become a calm and enlightened person, lives happily without causing any trouble to anyone. Even after knowing these facts, do not become a father to the world of destruction. But try to become one who abandons the desire for comfort and pursues comfort. It is not yet too late.

It is impossible to find a person in the world who is free from problems.


 This is the true function of the universe. If a lamp is burning well, no matter how long one tries to turn it upside down, it cannot be done that way at any moment. That is because it burns well. But a lamp that is not lit well is not allowed to burn that way. That is because it does not have the power to burn well. There are many people in this universe who live and are nourished by certain good virtues. No matter how problematic environmental conditions they face, they also strive to move forward unwaveringly until the moment they attain their liberation or peace without any concern or disturbance about those environmental conditions. That is the peace they attain through the development of wisdom developed by their unwavering mentality.


It is impossible to find a person in the world who is free from problems. Every person has some kind of problem. But in the face of those problems, we should strive to act without any hesitation or hesitation. That is because we must create our future liberation within ourselves. The human being is motivated to act today by fulfilling his own mental needs, not by environmental or physical needs. Therefore, many problems have arisen today. But in the face of those problems, he has become a very mentally depressed person and has even ended up committing suicide.


If all of us humans strive to live in a socialized environment where we know our own situation well, a solution to many of the problems and mental distress that occur in this society will be created within ourselves. But because you are trying to live without understanding who you are today, you have developed a depressed mentality. There are certain things that you can do in accordance with your mental background. Try to do that yourself. In addition, if you try to do a bunch of things that your mental strength cannot handle, there is a great chance that your mind will become stressed and tense, and eventually it will turn into a disease called depression. Rather than running around like crazy people thinking that there is a permanent peace in an impermanent universe, if we try to achieve peace with mental concentration in this life, it will be good for all beings. Otherwise, this mentally oppressed environment that exists today will only double or triple.


What is the world standard Dharma? All beings who are born live in this world for 100 years or more or less and then die. If they perform correct actions during that life, they will achieve a light mental environment. Likewise, if they commit wrong actions, they will create a miserable mental environment. But it is not only they who will suffer according to this miserable mental pattern. Others in society will also have to suffer its adverse consequences. Because if there is no peace in their minds and lives, they will not allow others to live a good and happy life. We can see examples of this in the whole world today. Therefore, what we need to do to change these miserable mental patterns is to develop good attitudes in the minds of every living being. Without doing so, this society will not be able to be built well at any time. We all want to live happily. Therefore, let us strive to act wisely and wisely. Then this entire universe will live with peace and happiness.

If you live a righteous life, then you can get physical and mental peace.

 If someone says that a stone floats on the surface of the water, we accept it, but if someone says that it sank in the water, it is just as amazing as it is truly amazing. Similarly, if someone says that a large stone floats on water, it is a great wonder. But if you ask a little about how many such amazing events occur in this universe today, it is not rare to have the ability to demonstrate it with good examples.


The king of Kosala, who was in the Buddha's time, saw all the amazing events mentioned above in a dream. When he saw it and went to the Buddha to ask what the results were, the Buddha began to preach to the king. The result of this is that in the future, the kings who live in the country will be unrighteous, so the worthy people living in the country will never find a suitable place. Even if they do, they will not be given the opportunity to perform their duties well according to those merits.


Today, the fruits of the dreams that the King of Kosala saw have come true. Everything is going well. Today, a society full of immorality and depraved morality has been created. All the attitudes of people have deteriorated. This entire social level has been created into a society where only those who strive to satisfy their own thoughts only with sensual desires, without knowing their parents, brothers, sisters, and close friends, live. Why did this happen? Isn't it because they only study for the purpose of earning money to satisfy their thoughts and unlimited desires? That is why. If a person is a well-educated creature, that person has


1. Head


2. Hand


3. Heart


These three parts should be well-formed. But today, because only the head and the hand are made, a group of people have emerged who have no understanding of the minds and lives of others, just like robots, due to their mental and sensual mentality.


A person who lives in the midst of a multitude of problems always looks for a way to create problems, not a way to solve them. Why? From a young age, he is used to giving his mind bad mental attitudes, not good ones. Therefore, he always strives to create a problem. This is why today the deserving do not get the right place and those who do are not allowed to work in it.


Similarly, today there is great curiosity in all beings. What is that? Will the world end soon? Everyone is always thinking and worrying about this. We should ask this. Also, if you are trying to get rid of it, start living a life according to the Dharma. Then you will not have to regret even if this whole world is destroyed and shattered. But if you live a wrong life, you will have to go to the next world and suffer.



Before the destruction of the world, when all the living beings here see their parents, brothers and relatives, they will all meet like animals and will automatically be destroyed by each other's hands and will cut off all objects with axes. Then, those weapons will be cut down and destroyed, and in the end, only those who lived virtuous lives will remain. Doesn't all this happen today? Are there no people in this universe who do not know their parents today? There are, right?


If you live a righteous life, then you can get physical and mental peace. But if you live outside of that, you will have to live an unrighteous life there with a miserable mentality. As long as you do good, you will have peace. As long as evil is done, there will be destruction. "Those who sow the seeds reap the seeds." This is good advice, so always sharpen it in your life.

Let us try to learn well how everyone dies as mortals.


 When will we ever experience mental peace and ease in a society that strives to add more ignorance to this human life that has been given to us to mix knowledge with ignorance? Never. But we humans were not born to wander in this universe, consume food, clothing, vehicles, medicines, etc., and die. But thinking that it should be so, all socialized beings are accustomed to moving forward and chasing the five pleasures, surpassing others. We experience the final results of this in this society itself. All of us have two eyes. Why? Not to move forward by carefully examining the surroundings we are moving in, knowing them, and not to move forward by observing two paths with two eyes. Today, we are feeling a little bit about whether we are going on such a journey when we look at the way we are moving.

There is a certain system of rules accepted by the society that every living being should follow for the benefit of himself or other living beings during his lifetime. If someone goes outside that system of rules, that person will be scolded or insulted by others who live in the society. That is because he has followed a wrong method. Similarly, there is a certain system of rules by which a vehicle must travel on a road. Some people who do not travel according to that system of rules sometimes end up on the verge of death. That is because they could not follow the accepted system of rules. But if someone lives by following all those rules to the letter, he lives his life with great peace. Similarly, we all have to live this human life with great care. Otherwise, our mind creates a very distorted environmental environment. Then our mind cannot find peace by doing any work all the time. Each of us lives a very limited period of time. What is needed to spend that limited time is a set of activities that are mentally and physically relaxing, not activities that tire both the mind and the body. There are emotions that the human mind can and cannot bear. The Buddha also taught that such emotions flow when a being is tempted to pursue the five sensual pleasures in an improper way. We can also know it by studying it well. Let us try to learn well how everyone dies as mortals. Then it will be clear how to live in this world.

You are a coward when faced with a problem every time,

 You are a coward when faced with a problem every time, not because you cannot face that problem. It is because you do not know how to face that problem. The main reason for this is that the basic foundation of each of us has not been built correctly. Our parents are responsible for this. Stephen Glenn is one of the most talented and famous scientists in the world. He has done a lot of research related to medicine. He has also given many patients who were about to die the opportunity to see the light of day again and make their mark on this world. One day, during an interview with him, he was asked why you show great talent in your amazing research work. What were the special factors that influenced those extraordinary talents in your early life?



Then Stephen explained that the root of all these little skills is my mother. He gave an example to illustrate it. What is that?


One day, when I was going to take out a large bottle of milk from the refrigerator, my hands could not bear the weight of the bottle and the bottle slipped and fell to the ground. The bottle broke and the milk spread all over the kitchen. We all know what other mothers would have done at that moment. 


After scolding the child and sending him aside, the mother alone removed the broken glass bottle and the milk and washed the floor thoroughly. But my mother did not scold me. She said at once

—Son, you did a good job, you are a good magician, look at the river of milk in the kitchen. I have never seen such a beautiful river of milk˜


My mother told me this again, okay, now what was going to happen has happened. Now let's both of us get together and clean this up. Let's clean this up really well. Before that, do you want to jump into the middle of this milk river and have a swim? Do that, but remove the glass beads. Actually, I've already jumped into that milk river. Then my mother called me and said


"Son, when something like this happens, we should first take the things out and put them aside and wash them well. Then we should put those things in order again. So now we will do that work together."


So now my mother and I wiped up all the spilled milk with a piece of spinach. While doing so, my mother was giving me advice. My son, you couldn't lift this big milk bottle with your small hands because it was heavy and you didn't know how to lift it. Now fill a bottle with water and practice carrying it. Practice carrying that bottle carefully without dropping it on the ground. My mother gave me a lot of advice like this. After hearing all that, I got used to carrying a water bottle here and there without dropping it that evening. Because of the encouragement my mother gave me that day, I got a lot of courage to do a quick experiment today. Even if my experiment went wrong, I will learn something more from it. That is my The main reason for success in life.


If Stephen Glenn entered the right path in this way, why can't you develop in the same way? Our parents didn't give us all the opportunity to develop on our own, right? That's why we live in today's society under mental stress. Through that, not only they but the entire society will be in a depressed state. Why? If their ideas and anger are not fulfilled in that way, they will take revenge on the entire society. If we provide that opportunity, everyone living in this society will not have any opportunity to develop on their own. It would be good if we understand it well and act wisely.

We should explain to our children how to live in society and provide them with the opportunity to follow that path, but we should not go with them. If they are allowed to develop on their own, their personality will be developed well. Otherwise, Even if it takes 25 years, they will not develop a mentality that allows them to do their own work on their own. As those responsible for this, do we try to make our children feel like pets by scolding them and locking them up in our homes? Do we take a different approach, showing them the right path to develop on their own and pointing out their mistakes and helping them move forward? If we do that, those children will shine like a pillar of light that shines throughout the country.

When a house is on fire,


 When a house is on fire, it is possible to get some use out of everything that is taken out of it, but what is the use of everything that is burned in it? We can get comfort from the good things we have done during our life, but we cannot get comfort from everything that we have not done, except mental stress. This is good advice. But we should ask ourselves carefully with our minds and wisdom who in this world is subject to this advice.


One day 2600 years ago, the King of Kosala went to the Buddha in great fear and began to tremble. Then the Buddha asked, "O king, what is the reason for your great fear?" "Yes, sir, I saw sixteen very terrible dreams last night. From the moment I saw those dreams, my mind has been filled with great fear. That is because, sir, all those dreams were very distorted." If so, O king, if you tell me some of those dreams, I can interpret them. Hearing this, the king of Kosala described one dream in this way.


Sir, I saw that the trees that had grown for about a year had borne good and fruitful fruits. What is the reason for this, sir?


Sir, this is not a very strange dream. The result of this will be that an unrighteous king will arise in this country in the future. At that time, men and women who are intoxicated with lust and greed for sex will marry at a young age. Since they do so out of lustful motives, the children born to them will be of weak intellect, lascivious, and sensual motives. Then a group of people will arise in society who do not know good and bad, as well as the system of ethics. There will be frequent conflicts and riots among them. Thus the Buddha preached to the King of Kosala.


When we look at that fact with an inquiring eye, this process has taken place in the same way in today's socialized environment. Similarly, many children living in today's society are trying to behave in lustful thoughts and through them they are trying to get rid of all the obstacles. This is because their parents are not able to give them any advice to get rid of the darkness of ignorance. If they both know very well who the mother and father are and fulfill their role in the child who sees the light of this world through their own milk, then we can say that they have given the right child and the right man to this world. But just by giving birth to children or just by giving milk to them when they cry, you cannot become a mother and just by fulfilling the happiness that those children ask for in the same way, you cannot become a right father.


We can go to a shop and buy everything we need for money. But is it possible to get the attention and affection of parents in that way for their children? We need to ask ourselves this. Many parents in today's society have not entered into marriage on any basis. I will reveal the basic reason for stating it that way. If they entered into marriage on a permanent basis, then why do they forget the protection and affection of their children based only on the pursuit of money after entering into marriage? Someone argues that they are seeking money for the future of their children. No, that is a completely wrong idea. One should build a house so that they can live well without being affected by the rains, winds, etc., and not so that they can constantly suffer from the sun, rains, winds, and flies and mosquitoes. But today, such a group of scenes are happening in our society. What is that? Unable to even earn enough to cover their daily expenses, they get married and give their children away. Then they send their children to school for a while. They earn a little money by doing odd jobs and make their children successful in their early lives. Later, the money they earn is not enough to fulfill all those tasks. Then, various quarrels arise in the house. They are tempted to use alcohol as a solution to those quarrels. This creates a more problematic environment than before.


The above-mentioned situation is changing a little today. How is that? Because the wealth earned by their husbands is not enough, wives are tempted to seek the pleasures that are not fulfilled by their husbands from their husbands. We have also seen that after such vices are revealed, the end of their lives is death. Otherwise, they have had to spend their last lives in prisons. What was the basic reason for all this? Isn't it because the basic foundation of their lives was not created correctly? Isn't that why?


It is true that we are all human beings. But if we try to get rid of the problems we have, rather than knowingly facing a set of problems, wouldn't that be a great relief for human life? If we try to understand the reality of the universe and human life, rather than swimming around in this ocean of samsara, intoxicated by delusion and intoxicated by lust, searching for a corner, we can be happy that we have done good for this human life we ​​have received. If we don't do that, we will have to wander in this world like a madman who has become even more confused.

—“Monks, these beings have a youthful period. During that period, they are intoxicated with youthful enthusiasm and act immorally in body, speech, and mind.


This is how the Buddha spoke about the youthful enthusiasm. Therefore, even though we may not be surprised by the actions taking place in society today, we should not try to distort our thinking. If we act in such a distorted way, we will suffer the consequences for the entire society.


If you are a person who is obsessed with lust, keep in mind that you will meet the same fate as a dog that has eaten a piece of meat. Ask yourself what kind of suffering you will have to endure in the end and reap the benefits.

If you want to win, you must first act like a winner.

 


Those who live in the world have to go through many difficulties and sorrows before they achieve their success. But if they think that all those difficulties are a good way to their future happiness and go forward with a single courageous thought, they can find peace in their lives.

But should you think that one obstacle has been built in your path and turn your entire future into a dark path? No, right? But you should see that obstacle as a good opportunity and strive to work harder. In order to find happiness, we all have to overcome sorrow. In the end, we can find comfort and praise.


A boy named Dukenfield, who was born in Pennsylvania, was one day throwing a shovel in his house when it stepped on his father's foot, and the handle hit his father's knee. Then the father took the shovel in his hand and jumped up in anger and hit Duken on the shoulder with the shovel handle. Angry at this, little Duken took a big box, put a mat near the door, climbed on it and placed the box on the top of the stairs. Unbeknownst to him, as soon as Duken's father entered the house, the box fell on his father's head. Angry at this, little Duken ran away from home because he was afraid of being punished. He ran away from home with the intention of never coming home again and returned after about 16 years. But by then his life had changed to some extent with the goal of living his own life. He worked hard to do it the way he thought, and he did it the same way and became the best movie star in Bollywood. The salary he received was ten times the salary of the President of the United States.


We all face many small problems in life that pave the way for a great change in our future. And some situations can darken the entire future. But if someone has wisdom built with unwavering determination, his journey is the end of the world.


If you want to win, you must first act like a winner. Then you will be a winner. If you want to lose, you must act like a loser. Before Dukenfield became a movie star, he and his friends went to the beach with his friends and showed them how to jump into the ocean and drown. He got his friends to sell ice cream and bread with linguine in the middle to the people who came to watch. It was very successful. To make it more successful, he drowned four or five times a day. He and his friends made a lot of money because of these activities.


What is the secret of the success of this young man named Dukenfield? Isn't it the power of sweat and hard work? He aspired to be a movie star. For that, he sat on chairs until his pants were wet countless times. Somehow, in his poverty, he was offered to write and direct a film for free, but everyone rejected him. But Dukenfield, who was not deterred, cashed a check for £ 100,000 after the production of the film David Copperfield was completed. In this way, he stepped on the path of progress with unwavering determination. Until he reached this position, he slept at night on benches, on a grass mat, and on cardboard boxes. After living such a harsh life for forty years, Mohu became a popular film star who attracted everyone's attention. When he became successful and went to sleep on a bed with clean sheets every night, a sad mentality developed. That was because he remembered the life he had lived. But he became successful enough to inherit a bed with a freshly washed and made bed every night. But there was nothing in this world that was more uncomfortable for him than sleeping in it.


How much suffering do many people suffer to enjoy their own happiness? We have seen some people who are unable to bear that suffering and even commit suicide. But we also have food, clothes and clothing to enjoy. Despite having all that, some children do not make any effort to engage in educational activities properly. That is why today a terrible situation has arisen in this entire society.

In a chaotic world, people with chaotic thoughts live

 


We know that the Buddha was a teacher who did not commit any wrongdoing. But how many people were there who greatly insulted him? But the Buddha did not think about any of that. Why? Because he acted in accordance with his conscience. As far as we know, he should not be shaken by the eight Dhamma. If that were the case, he would always live a life of mental suffering.

We all listen to the Buddha's Dhamma often, but do not adapt to it, so if someone experiences something, he will be angry at it and will regret it accordingly. In the end, he will suffer as a person suffering from mental suffering. Then, was it not because of our own unseemly actions that we had to suffer? That is why. Then, we will not try to go astray even though we have the right path. Then we can live in peace. Otherwise, we can achieve a happy ending. In a chaotic world, people with different thoughts live. In it, there are those who live in mental comfort as well as those who live in mental discomfort. Therefore, we are not a group of mentally disturbed people. Let us strive to live in mental comfort. Try to walk on the path you are trying to walk. If you think that you are living a right life without considering the experiences of others,

Lack of memory



In addition, another problem that children who are studying can see is memory loss. The reason for this is that the memory storage space in their minds is full. What we need to do is to remove the unnecessary memories that are full from the mind. Or forget them. Then the ability to do the necessary lessons with good memory will naturally arise. Also, when remembering lessons, we should remember them in a certain order and then we will have the ability to examine them all when necessary.


However, we will have to face various problems due to the lack of practice in doing any work according to a plan. That is, we will not be able to do the things we study without any order and do not carry out the lessons with a clear mind in a certain order, so we will not be able to do the work properly in an exam or a practical work related to the subject.


Likewise, even if you have completed your education well, whether through a degree or a certificate from a course or other certificate, it should not become knowledge that is limited to a piece of paper. You must definitely develop the ability to put the learned subject into practice. Otherwise, what happens is that when you put the knowledge into practice, you will have to carry the book you learned again. You yourself will be embarrassed or embarrassed. Children, do not accumulate unnecessary thoughts in your mind. Only absorb the necessary knowledge. This will also make your mind feel lighter. The Buddha said it this way,


Nā paresam vilomanī

Nā paresam kātha kathān

Attāno va avekkhaya

Kāthāni akatānicha


Do not think about what others have done or not done, but only examine what you have done and not done and correct your own mistakes ˜


However, the person in today's society keeps all the mistakes and shortcomings of others in his mind and suffers in various ways. This is an obstacle to his mental happiness and ease. Also, as I said earlier, unnecessary thoughts are an obstacle to his memory. For example, when you constantly think about the girl or boy you are dating, your memory power will naturally decrease. This is a great crime that you are committing against yourself. Why are you committing a crime against yourself? During your studies, engaging in unnecessary activities will also have adverse consequences for you. As your parents also say, avoid starting unnecessary and useless love relationships.


The human mind is an insatiable thing. It is very difficult to control the desires that arise in the human mind. Once we think we need something, we often try to get it, whether it is good or bad, and once we get it, we try to enjoy it. Without stopping, we run after it again and again. It is natural to have a mental breakdown or conflict when it is not achieved in some way. Love relationships are the best example here. Conflicts that arise when one party tries but does not get the desired love are a frequent story in today's society. We have also seen countless attempts to commit suicide. As students, you have not yet seen society properly. Also, when it is difficult to bear problems as a group that has not matured, many people see suicide as an answer. Also, when there is no advice or an adult to explain these matters, such tragedies naturally lead to such tragedies. So, if you live a good and successful life as a child, you may inherit a happy life in the future. So, do you also wait, thinking of unnecessary obstacles as happiness and allowing them to stand in your way? This is a matter that you should examine with your own mind. We should not try to destroy the human life that we have achieved through previous merits, but to make it successful.

Son, your father's alcohol use may be the reason for your memory loss. And if you also become addicted to that activity, your memory may also decrease. Think carefully. Why distort the memory and good memory that you have been given by birth? Why live like a madman?


In addition, another factor that hinders children's academic activities is the negligence and financial difficulties of parents. Your parents may be educated and intelligent. But if your family is constantly squeezed by financial problems, if the child cannot properly fulfill the necessary books and other educational needs, that is also a fundamental issue that children face.


Children, you also have a responsibility. Act with a good understanding of your parents' financial problems. Use the limited resources they receive for your education as properly as possible. Avoid unnecessary decorations and unnecessary trifles. Contribute to your parents' economy as much as you can. The hut you live in may be a hut. But you can also make it a royal residence.


There is another group of children. Their parents are considered to be wealthy. No matter how much those parents try to provide all the comforts for their child and direct them towards education, the child does not make any effort towards education. Do you belong to this group? Do you think that you can also live comfortably in the future with the wealth that your parents have earned through hard work. Why do you act on such decisions? Don't you think that your future can be dark through such decisions? You, my son, should build your future yourself. It is a way to instill in yourself a sense of self-satisfaction and self-esteem that comes from trying to stand up independently. What if you could later say with your head held high that I have progressed through my own efforts? Think. Achieve your goals independently. Make the most of the resources and blessings you receive.


I can write beautifully, sing songs, read books and understand, but even if I can do all that, why do I live like a fool?


Think. The mind will give you a powerful answer. Your mind will be a wise teacher for you. Then all you have to do is put your thoughts into practice. Listen carefully to what your teacher says and absorb it in your mind. Put it into practice correctly. Complete any task assigned to you in school, no matter how difficult it is, with effort. Just as you try to become a great hero by jumping from mountains that cannot be jumped, try to cross the great river called learning and stand like a hero in the face of the ocean you encounter.


Daughter, son, there is no task that you cannot do in this world. If you have the right guidance, you can reach the right place with courage and effort. Try to gain the necessary strength, courage and knowledge, both in your mind and brain, and stand before the future society as a very successful person. This is how you can show your true personality. You cannot become a hero by oppressing or bullying another person. There are examples in society that trying to dominate society with wealth or weapons is temporary. But the personality of a person who has the power to rule as a popular and useful person will be eternal. His popularity will be eternal.


Your mother and father have raised you with strong hands and feet. By doing so, you are not giving yourself to society to be criticized. If you carry a sword or dagger or behave corruptly in society, you are an inhuman.


Manan usasathithi manuso

A man with a high mind is considered a human being.


So how should a man of high intellect behave? You should ask yourself. The dog's job is to behave like a dog. A dog does it properly. But to what extent does a human try to do his job in a way that is befitting a human? When a human tries to do the job of an animal, we too become animals. Do you also try to be like that? Or do you achieve your goal of being a good child who respects humanity?

Questions that torment children's minds

 


*** No one to listen to one's problems ***


Why does it take so long for a tree to bear fruit after planting? The reason is that it needs to mature to bear fruit. Otherwise, a tree will bear fruit the very next day after planting.


Children, you are the same. Why don't you think about that? Otherwise, from the day you are born, why do each of you kneel and crawl in your parents' arms and be pampered? Why do your parents suffer and work hard to fulfill all your needs? Otherwise, you would have been married off and set free from childhood. This is not done for one reason.


Every socialized person should first receive training to do any work. You should gain good knowledge about the social environment as well as about living in that environment. Since it is the responsibility of parents to make their children fulfill that task, they should first teach them how to live in society by teaching them to say the words "mother, father, sister, brother, sister, brother." Since it is the responsibility of parents, after parents find out about their children's love affairs, they torture their children in various ways, make them uncomfortable, and subject them to mental anguish. This must be due to the ignorance of the parents. But dear parents, you should do something else.


Isn't it my beloved daughter or son who is being criticized and insulted in this way? By doing this, won't their future be dark? By banning them from classes, won't their education be delayed? They will suffer a mental breakdown, won't they? ˜


Also, teachers marginalize those children in their classes. You should think about something first before doing so.


You should think about these and other things in various ways and examine them carefully and then give such advice to your daughter or son accordingly. Then your child will undoubtedly become a citizen who is full of good qualities and shines in the entire society. This is a task that must be done practically. Go to your daughter or son and ask, 


My son, what are your shortcomings? Are you not getting enough food, books, clothes, love, kindness, and compassion from us? 


Then, know what the answer is from your child and take the right steps regarding your child in the right way according to that answer. But be careful not to let the attitude that your child has committed a mistake and that he is a sinner take root in his mind. The reason for this is that cutting off the branches of a young plant will stunt the growth of that plant. This theory will also affect your child in the same way. You should take the right steps to change it. It should be explained like this. And tell your children,


Son, don't do that job. If you do that job, you won't be able to study. Then those you love won't be with you. If you are a good, beautiful person or someone in a high position in society, hundreds of thousands of people will come to you for you. Therefore, son, study well and come to a good position in society as a high person. Otherwise, if you go to that job without studying, you will get addicted to your desires and you will not be able to study. Then someday, after you get married, both of you will have to live by serving others. Then you will not be called Mrs. or Mr. My son/daughter, then you will be called a farmer, a worker, etc. So why are we called by various unpleasant names when we can live this beautifully? Can't we live as a good husband or a good wife by sitting in a comfortable chair and controlling others? How much happiness and acceptance is there then? You act as if you are the one who controls your future. Then you will not be able to finish the number of beautiful girls and handsome boys who follow you. Then you can be happy. However, no matter how much wealth you get, you should act in a way that does not violate those wealth and does not go against the rules of society. How can you say that?


(I became a good doctor, lawyer, teacher, engineer, orator and a good preacher, businessman, and successful farmer. I got this kind of situation because I worked well according to a schedule. So I want to give my children the same situation. I want to live in society well) ˜


Through such conversations, you can try to direct your child on the right path. In this way, your child can express himself only if you have also fulfilled your duties properly. If not, you already know what kind of life you will have to lead. So, you should be careful to fulfill the proper duties of your age and live a good life as a good daughter or son by engaging only in tasks appropriate to your age, because the door of love is a lock on the door of learning. If that happens, you will not be able to study and will have to live alone, and after marriage, there will be a possibility of quarrels and quarrels in your home.

It's not like love, it feels like a cage

You will have to bear the pain like a big tree


We should apply its meaning to our lives as well as to our own. If not, we can understand what kind of problems we will have to face by looking at the current society. But what do you do after seeing it? And what should you do? It is necessary to ask again.


At an age when you don't know what opposite-sex love is, what kind of happiness do you do opposite-sex love to get? My son, ask yourself what love is. Then you will blame yourself. Or you will look at the faces of those around you and smile a little. Is that smile for others or for yourself? No, it is for your own stupidity. Ask yourself this.


Another problem that you will face during your study period is that there is no one to listen to and express your questions. During your life, you should have a friend who can express your sorrows and happiness and understand your thoughts. It is a great help in your life. The reason for this is that every person loses his or her ability to bear a problem when he or she has it. Then, by expressing that problem to someone else and the listener will explain the necessary solutions to solve that problem. This idea has been mentioned in the book Prabuddha written by Mahagamasekera. How is it that,


When you laugh,

the whole world laughs with you

but when you mourn,

the whole world laughs with you

(Prabbuddha: Mahagamasekera)


This fact is a true truth. Every person living in this world is accustomed to laughing only when those around him laugh. But if those around him mourn, he never tries to mourn with him or talk about his mourning. But we should also get used to it. Therefore, we should associate with a suitable friend to express the happiness and sadness that arises in our hearts. Then we will be able to free our mind from all problems. We can scold our mother or father in various ways when we see our mistake. But we should not make more such mistakes without trying to fix that mistake and live a correct life. We should not be arrogant and talk to our parents. If the father or mother does not point out the mistakes of our children, who will point them out? When our mother or father points out a mistake, we should not eat, drink, or commit suicide, but rather live a correct life free from mistakes. Likewise, there is no shame in expressing the sadness that arises in our heart to our best friend. But we should not make wrong decisions and make ourselves and others uncomfortable.

Problems children face in getting an education

 




*** Obstacles to school attendance due to economic difficulties ***


Although it is necessary to breastfeed your child when he is young, this society has become so cruel, evil and insensitive that some mothers, due to their migration abroad, feed their newborn babies with formula milk. You may not have thought that this would have adverse consequences even if you are motivated by the future well-being of yourself and your child. But, Mom and Dad, this will cause great destruction to your child. When the parents are not around, who is the child's mother? Why are they not with me? Do they not love me? Such thoughts do not come to the minds of children through anyone's teaching. They will also find the answers to these questions themselves. Then they will naturally become people who hate their parents. Parents, it is your responsibility to make the child born of your blood a good person or a bad person.


Children cannot receive as much love and comfort from any other person as they receive from their parents. So, what you should do before getting married is to build a financial situation that is necessary for yourself, your family and your children to live well. By entering into marriage in such an unplanned way, the future of your children as well as your own life will become a dark, sad and boring situation.


Even if the mother of another family goes abroad and hands over the children to the father, the father will spend the money sent by the mother and act as a wasteful person. If he becomes an educated father, he can educate his children and lead a good life. Otherwise, the father will also lead a wasteful and promiscuous life, sending his children astray. When the mother returns home, she will have to regret everything and be more helpless than before.


*** Problems with love relationships ***


It is also a tragedy that children expect love from their family and parents from society that they do not receive. If the child is a girl, that will also be a reason for her destruction. Even though parents cannot bear such things, this happens as a result of the mistakes and omissions made in the beginning.


What do children do in today's society when they say they love? It is a practice without any purpose. That is, they are pursuing various sensual pleasures. Or they are victims of the unlimited desires of the lustful. Those love relationships will last as long as they can enjoy those desires. But after the adults find out or some other tragic fate, these love stories will end.


Daughter, son, you should honestly ask yourself,


Who do you love the most? Why do I love? What do I get from this love? How much does this hinder my educational activities? So, does this hindrance affect my future development? Am I doing this wrong? Am I doing this wrong consciously? Think. Why can't I get rid of this mistake? I need to make a way where I can enjoy all this every day, right? Is it possible to enjoy all the pleasures of life in the same way every day? If every girl and boy thinks about these things, they will realize that they are doing a futile task.


If a path is properly prepared, you can travel as far as you want without any obstacles. But the small potholes on that path make your journey a little difficult and also cause fatigue to the body. So, the first thing we should do is prepare the path we are traveling properly. Children, then try to achieve success in your journey from today. Use your knowledge as a friend in preparing your path. Then you will be able to reach your goal well. No one will be able to stop it.


Get the love, kindness, mercy, and compassion you need from within yourself. Think about what you desire as children. Write down the pleasures you desire separately and create a method for yourself to fulfill those desires separately.


• Keep your body beautiful.

• Do not listen to criticism from others.

• Be praised.

• Behave in society with higher knowledge than others.

• Be a leader in a group.

• Get your needs met.

• Receive parental love.

• Be an honest person in society.


One should try to fulfill all these hopes and dreams. By performing one's duties well, all these hopes will naturally be fulfilled.

What did Prince Siddhartha ask his father?


My father, if you insist on my staying in the palace, there are certain things that you must grant me. If you are able to grant me those things, I will remain in this palace forever. If you are unable to grant me those things, I will leave this palace and seek peace. Then King Suddhodana asked him what good thing he wanted, and he said, "Give me the opportunity to remain in this palace forever, without growing old, and without dying, while retaining this youthful beauty." If that is possible, I will remain in this palace forever. Hearing this, King Suddhodana said, "Son, I am unable to grant you the good things you ask for." "Therefore, I grant you permission to leave the kingdom."


Hearing this, Prince Siddhartha left the kingdom with the aim of finding his own liberation and leading others to the path of liberation. If he had left all his comforts and realized the ultimate truth of the world and made others understand that truth and brought happiness, then we should be able to fulfill our educational activities in the right way with the aim of achieving happiness in this life. We have not been able to do it because we have been hesitant.


Every person living in this world acts with the ultimate desire to attain his own liberation. But do they do the necessary work to attain their own liberation? What do they do to attain this liberation? We should be selfish in attaining our own liberation. But it should not be a nuisance to others and there should be mutual support. In all these and other matters, it was shown that parents How does affection affect children? There are many other issues that affect this issue. Among them, we should especially examine the issue of love.


The Kosalan king, who was in conversation with Mallika Devi, the chief concubine of the Kosalan king, asked her


Atthi nu kho te mallike

ko channe attana piya taroti

(Ko:sang)


Mallika, is there anyone else in this world who is dearer to you than you?


Naththi kho me maharaja

ko channe attana piya taroti

(Ko:sang)

O king, there is no one else in this world who is dearer to me than me


On hearing this, the Kosalan king was very pleased with Mallika Devi's knowledge. But that was not the answer the Kosalan king had expected. You must understand what it was. At the end of these matters, the Kosalan king After approaching the Buddha and revealing these facts to him, the Buddha preached this verse, explaining the nature of human life and the desires of people.


Sabba disa anuparigamma cetasa

nevajjaga piya matthana kavachi

evam piya puthu atta paresam

tasma na hinse param atta kamoti

(Ko:sam)


Even if one searches carefully in all directions, one cannot find someone more beloved than oneself. Therefore, if one loves someone, one refrains from doing harm to oneself and doing things that are harmful to oneself.


Since this is a sermon of the Buddha, it can be considered correct when examined.


Our children, who live at an age when the sun sets and the buds of flowers are destroyed by a great storm before they can bloom, are being destroyed by the sun and the buds of flowers are destroyed by a great storm before they can bloom. They have been blinded by illusion and are lost on a dark path. Who is showing them the right path and how is that right path shown? We need to examine this.


Dear daughter, son, you are still just a small lotus bud. How does that lotus bud, when the sun shines on it and it blooms, delight the hearts of every living being in the world? Similarly, if you live your life correctly in childhood, you can be an exemplary person to the entire world in the future. Your gender will not be an obstacle to that. All that is needed is the knowledge you acquire. You must acquire it with your own efforts. For that, you have to do only one thing. Your parents or siblings will provide all the necessities needed for learning. Also, your teachers and parents will properly explain to you how to do the learning process, as well as the path to follow and the path to avoid. So what is your task? It is simply to engage in the process of learning well. So why are you not engaging in that task? What are the problems that have influenced you not to engage in that task?

A person living in the world always strives to possess many things that are visible to the senses.

 The mind is the root of every action performed by every living being in the world. There are two types of actions, white and black. They can be analyzed as good and bad, good and bad, good and bad, and merit and demerit. These two types of actions are


based on the mind. Therefore, the mind is the most important element of the six senses possessed by a living being. This should be known from this.


" Mano pubbangama dhamma mano settha manomaya

manasa che pasanne basativa karotiva

thatonam sukhamangveti khayava anapayini "


This is further confirmed by the Dhamma verse. The superiority and inferiority of the sharp knife that a person performs is also determined by the mental environment. A doctor cuts and wounds a patient with the intention of healing a patient and cuts and wounds a patient with the intention of harming someone, depending on the nature of this mental environment.


A person is engaged in various activities. At different times in his life, he has to perform various tasks related to it. The result of those activities can be for himself or for others. However, it must be said that the result is received by either party. Therefore, the work that causes the result must be pure. If it is impure, the result will also be bad. He alone can make the cause or the work pure. He can do it by applying his mind to the work he does. The opening paragraph of the UNESCO Charter is "War begins in the minds of men", so it is clear from this what the result of the mind and thoughts is.


Whatever the society, it can be transformed into war, terrorism, and degradation. In the same way, it can be directed towards the development, progress, success, enthusiasm, peace, and reconciliation of the society itself. A person who is engaged in multiple roles becomes anxious about what to do when he inquires about the actions of others. He thinks that all that discomfort is imposed on him from the outside world because he does not realize that all this is happening in his mind. If he does not realize it himself, then someone else should do it as much as possible.


Buddhism, which emphasizes the feeling of "I am mine" or "I am mine" as an illusory view, shows that one should give priority to oneself in discipline and liberation. The Buddha preaches that it is superior to establish oneself in virtue first and to establish others in virtue, and that one should first establish proper qualities and secondly to instruct others.


The verse of the Dhamma Pada, "Attanameva patham

patirupe nivesaye

atanna manusaseyya

na kilisseyya pandito"


This is indicated by the above-mentioned point. The person living in the world always strives to possess many things that are visible to the senses. The person who looks at others in comparison to others thinks that he should have the same wealth, money and house as others. Then he acts out of desire without achieving them. Then, not knowing that he has the rest, happiness, duties and responsibilities that he had, he loses them. Instead, he lives in discomfort, dissatisfaction, hatred towards the unhappy society. Thus, he realizes that the creator of his problems is not someone else but himself.


There are many problems that children have to face during their studies. Namely,


• Obstacles to schooling due to financial difficulties

• Problems with parental affection

• Problems with memory loss

• Not having someone to listen to one's problems

• Problems with love relationships


*** Problems with parental affection ***


From these problems, we must first ask about the problem of parental affection. This is a situation that is very common in today's society. Do the children who are born from their wombs receive the affection that their parents should give them? Do they address their daughter and son with affectionate words such as "daughter" and "son"?


"Daughter/son, come here, don't do that work. That work will harm you." Do parents today bring their children close to them and teach them these things with affection? No, right, Mom and Dad. If they did that, there would not be so many problems in this society. And you are not late. Explain everything to your child with love. Son, this is a bad thing, this is a good thing, do this, do not do this, make them understand with love and understanding. Then your child will appear in society as a good and intelligent man. Otherwise, if you only nurture the children you have given birth to with the thought that you will do whatever you want, you can only be a nominal mother or father.


To change this fact, let us try to become a good mother and a good father. Then every woman in this world will be a real mother and every father will be a real father.


But without that love, it is inevitable that every child will become a disgrace to the entire society. Today, many mothers and fathers in our country are accustomed to leaving their children alone and working abroad. Then who will take care of their daughter or son? It is like entrusting the work of a dog to a donkey. It is important to know that the affection and love that one deserves from a mother and father cannot be received from anyone else, but it must also be put into practice.

If you cannot understand what life is during the short period of time you live in life, you will face a lot




 If you cannot understand what life is during the short period of time you live in life, you will face a lot of problems. All the objects in the world change because they are made up of the four great ghosts that are constantly changing. Therefore, when all of them change, your thinking becomes very painful at the very moment when you are engaged in building and working on the ego. If so, you should develop a mentality with correct thinking that is free from ego. What is that? Think that I and others are the beginning of destruction just as all objects are created. If so, during the short period of time you live in this universe, you should love yourself and strive to build and handle yourself as a correct person. Through that, no one has any power to attack your thinking. Nor can they mentally torture you.

Always remember that fate gives the hardest battles to the best fighters.


Like you, I too will live in this universe for a few more days.




 In a society dominated by money, what is the method we follow to bring peace to the suffering mentality that we all experience with our eyes, mind and body? Are you struggling to earn wealth by engaging in wrong activities? Do you enjoy physical or mental peace forever in that effort? No, all of us living in this universe cannot find any peace in a short period of time like 27,000 days. But we can enjoy the results generated by the actions we all take. We should always remember that there are a variety of people living in a spherical world. Similarly, the Buddha has beautifully taught how beings who experience both pain and happiness due to that variety of behavior can find peace. But if someone listens to that sermon and follows the wrong path, no peace can be found in that person's life. How is that? We know that if we grab the tail or the body of a snake, the snake has a great chance of biting us. But if we grab the head of the snake, then the snake cannot bite us.


Similarly, if we engage in wrong activities in this universe, the very nature that created us does not bring us any comfort. But it creates great destruction in our lives. Because of that destruction, a great sorrow and oppressive mentality is also built. Why is all this happening? Isn't it because we follow illegal practices instead of following the provisions that we are supposed to follow?


You can be a great scholar, a wise man or a great orator. But before you do something, you should ask yourself whether the result of the action you are going to take is good or bad? Before you do that action, you should ask yourself whether the result of the action you are going to take is good or bad. Many philosophers born in this universe have provided many advices in the face of the problems of certain beings. Also, many people have enjoyed peace for a short while or forever due to those advices. But that peace was not obtained due to the mental temptation of another. We must constantly remember that it was due to our own mental temptation. Otherwise, none of us would have to be born and die in this universe and wander around in this universe.

If someone makes false accusations against a religion or a religion during the time required to clarify the reality, that person will have to suffer greatly from the natural dangers created by this universe itself. I do not think that it is necessary to present any reasons for it. That is because we are all a part of nature.


If someone is greedy for money and gain and is a lover of the five pleasures, his mentality is like that of a madman. He cannot find any peace at any moment. So ask yourself whether all the actions you are doing are right? Also, whether those actions are done for the sake of money or gain. If you feel that you are doing something wrong, get rid of that work and do something right. Otherwise, your life will be ruined and you will not find peace.


Like you, I too will live in this universe for a few more days. To find out, multiply 365 days by the number of years you normally live.

If one person lives happily, the other person takes great pains to destroy the happiness of that happy person.




 If one person lives happily, the other person takes great pains to destroy the happiness of that happy person. The end result of that pain may be the end of another person's life. No matter how much we are people full of inquiring intelligence to think and ask, don't we all act like fools full of Un inquiring intelligence?

What is the basic reason for that? Isn't it because we have accustomed our mental thinking to only the five-fold happiness? That is the same. But is there any comfort that we enjoy through the five-fold happiness? To what extent is that happiness satisfying? Many people living in the entire universe today follow a path of self-inquiry. But isn't it time for us to turn our inquiring intelligence a little to see if the comfort we get through it is truly in accordance with our mentality?


One of the 16 dreams that the King of Kosala had during the Buddha's lifetime was that a large sandalwood forest was sold for a milk churn that smelled of stench. When the Buddha was asked what the result of that was, he said that he preached the Dhamma with the hope of gain and other comforts. Also, both truth and falsehood are hidden in those sermons. Therefore, there is a lot of opportunity to mislead people through them in today's society.

Think of it, even in the dark sky, there will be a moment when a silver line will shine

 



We are not born to live in this world without dying until the world is destroyed. Why? It is for the purpose of making the eternal Dhamma in this universe clear to all beings. If any being born in this world thinks of living without dying, there is hardly a single other act that he has done in this world that is comparable to it.


Appaka te manusesu

Ye jana paragamino

Atayam ithara paja

Thiramevanu dhavathi


Of all the beings born in this world, only a very small group reaches the shore of the sigh of relief called Nibbana and rests peacefully. Many more are weeping in this land with a dark mentality full of sorrow and sighs. This is not only what happened today, but also happened in the days of the Buddha.


One night, the King of Kosala fell asleep and had sixteen dreams. The next morning, he was very frightened and told his ministers. The ministers who heard it said that the king should perform a sacrifice with a great slaughter of animals and save the country from this calamity, otherwise great destruction would occur. The king who heard it told Mallika Devi about it and before performing the sacrifice, he explained that the Buddha, who knew the conditions of all the three worlds very well, would answer all those dreams well and called the Buddha close. When the Buddha was told about some of those dreams, he explained each of those dreams and explained that the consequences of all of them would not be due to the fault of the unrighteous rulers who would come to the world in the future.


We should examine which of those dreams is considered the second dream. Why? Because the consequences of this are clearly visible to all of us today.


This king also saw a dream in which large fruits were produced from very small, unproductive plants. When the king asked the Buddha what this meant, he said, "Your Majesty, boys and girls who are not six or four years old and do not understand anything, get married without any knowledge and get married out of lust. Then they also have children. But as a result of their actions without any meaning, they have children. But those children are those who have grown up without wisdom or who have not been given any advice or instruction to grow wise and wise. The reason for this is that their parents' thoughts were based only on lustful thoughts and not on the thought of procreation. Therefore, those who are born in their name also act in this world as if they were engaged in lustful activities.


When we examine this chain of events carefully, it will be clear to those who are well-informed that this is true. For those who are not, I will try to make this example clear.


If we take a plate of rice to eat and do not look at the plate, but look away, and engage in a small chat with someone else, will that food be eaten in moderation? Will it be good for our body? There is no possibility that it will be good. The same is true of the results of other actions we take in society. If we try to do the work we do at every moment in a good and correct way, the mentality of each of us will be more comfortable. But if we do not do all the actions we do correctly, our mental functioning will also be problematic.


If we, all human beings who have been given a life full of life, treat this life correctly, you can find comfort. Practice being altruistic at all times. Then you can find great comfort. If the Buddha had not acted with an altruistic intention, would this pure Buddhism be available today? Would the right facts be heard? Would there be even a limited number of people who act correctly? We should think and ask about these facts.


You have forgotten that every living being in the world feels hunger, just like the hunger you feel in your stomach. If you are struggling to remember it now, it is not too late. But you have not forgotten it. It has been put aside in your memory. Try to steer the ship called life. While you are trying, keep in mind the places where you can raise the sails and where you can moor. Then many people will be tempted to pay homage to you with respect and courtesy. Then let us all act wisely with the intention of living peacefully in the perishable world. Shall we become the Ambapāli and Patacharāna who, having destroyed our own nature and not committed suicide due to lustful thoughts, take comfort in our lives? Or, if we prepare to live a life similar to the life that Ambapāli lived before hearing the Buddha's teachings, which is completely different from that, the fruit of that will also be yours.


Think of it, even in the dark sky, there will be a moment when a silver line will shine. Until then, live a righteous life. Get rid of foolish actions. Then you and the entire world will find peace. The satisfaction of that peace will be indescribable.

Does one go to war with hatred against another? Will he win through that? But he will suffer later.


 Jayam veram pasavathi

Dukkham sethi parajito

Upasanto sukham sethi

Hitvaa jayaa chaerajam


Does one go to war with hatred against another? Will he win through that? But he will suffer later. Similarly, the one who is defeated will suffer greatly. But the person who knows the difference between all these, the Upasanto, who has controlled his mind, will live a life of great peace.


We are all human beings by birth. And we will engage in human activities at least a little. But we should inquire with our wisdom and mind as to why we have not been able to find peace through that.


Not all the ideas in our mental structure are correct. That is because even though we have thoughts like love, kindness, compassion in our hearts, at certain times, streams of sinful thoughts like jealousy, hatred, anger will flow into them without us knowing it. We know that it is our natural nature. But due to those things, our entire life will be dragged into great sorrows.


You can understand very well what is being explained through the verse mentioned earlier. If we hate, we ourselves will be destroyed through it. So, as those who do not want to keep things harmful to ourselves, we should work with mindfulness to get rid of it. Otherwise, a very depressed state will arise in our mind and we will have to dance in this dance as a sick person. Looking at that, others will have to think that you are a very crazy person and will have to be insulted and slandered.


We do not want to be insulted and slandered by others living in society at any time. But the sinful intentions of jealousy, anger, hatred that arise in our minds can also lead to suicidal tendencies. Let us examine why this happens.


What did the Buddha preach in this way about suffering when we do not get what we want? When our loved ones desire something that pleases them and do not get it, a great number of conflicting thoughts arise in their pure thoughts. As a result of those conflicts, conflicts and persecutions will arise in this society. But none of us want to live in the midst of persecutions? No, right?


None of us should live as mentally depraved individuals. There is no good that can come to us or to others through it. Let us all strive to live as non-hatred people amidst hateful people. Then the entire universe will breathe a sigh of relief.


Let there be no darkness when you cannot see

Let there be no hunger when you have no food

Let there be no fierceness when the wind blows

Never cause hatred in your life


Leaving the suffering of living beings

Experience the Dhamma with a contented mind

The path of life in this world will be long if you do not become sad

May all hateful hearts become loving hearts

May all hearts sink to the bottom of the ocean of comfort

May all hearts be free from sorrow

May all be content with the refuge of the third refuge

Education separated from life and politics

 


Politics is something that should be done correctly and properly, not just for the sake of one's own thoughts. If someone does so, the satisfaction will be with him only for that moment. Then that satisfaction will be met with a tear and a sigh. This is the most fair process in this universe, then and now. But if we understand it well and try to understand who is doing the work from the social background in which we live today, we can live a life of great comfort.


There is a story of a Jataka narrated in the face of corrupt diplomatic activities. That is the Kukkura Jataka. What is well narrated here is that in the face of a wrong and corrupt act committed by a single person in the face of state governance, measures are taken to prevent it from happening again.


One summer, the chariot of the King of Benares was parked in the open air of the palace. Then, during that night, a heavy rain fell and the seats and the reins of the chariot, which were made of leather, became wet with the rain water. The pack of dogs guarding the palace, smelling the smell, bit and destroyed all the leather straps of the entire chariot. How did the minister Mudulla, who saw this, tell the king about this?


Your Majesty, last night, a pack of dogs entered the palace through the drain where the dirty water flows and bit and tore your chariot to pieces. In this way, the council of ministers, for their own protection, concealed the truth from the king and made a false statement. The king, accepting this, ordered all the dogs living outside the palace to be killed and burned. The council of ministers also did the same. Meanwhile, the Bodhisattva appeared among them and went to the king to save the lives of all those animals.


King, you are the protector of all the animals in this country. But with what inquiry do you save the lives of all of them? Nothing. Don't you know that this chariot was destroyed by dogs in this very palace? If you don't know, give all those dogs ghee mixed with ghee. Then all the dogs that ate the chariot will vomit it all up. The king, who did it in this way and reaped the right results, suffered a great tragedy.


In order to properly manage his government, his cabinet must also be correct. Otherwise, the entire country will be in great ruin. In the face of all these stories, we will understand that the disasters that occur are the results of our incorrect packaging of our correct thinking. If we understand this, we should strive to correct those mistakes, but not to engage in them and become cruel people who lead others to a miserable mentality and commit acts of corruption. If we do so, we will soon see the suffering of this entire world. To get rid of it, you should carefully examine your mind and actions.

Do not look at the past with a tearful, sorrowful mind.



 Why don't you try to become more lazy by looking at the past with regret? It doesn't do you any good. But it does you harm. What is that? It will limit everything you think and wish to do well and will limit everything to a dream. If all of us think and wish to do well in the same way, how clear would our minds be? But only a very limited number of these socialized beings try to do it that way. Do you only ask the entire universe to give you happiness when you are sad. Do you ask to give you sadness when you are happy? No. That is because your mind is made for mental peace. Keep the past as a good teacher in front of you to do well in the future. Otherwise, you will be a person with a mind that gets into trouble every moment. But we don't want to spend our money that way. Therefore, try to act in this way


Do not look at the past with a tearful, sorrowful mind. It does you no good but harm. But for the mentality that you need to live a peaceful life, keep the past as a teacher in front of you and try to bury everything else in the past. If you go to a place where there is a lot of garbage, you will not find anything but garbage. Try to grow as a person with some knowledge. Then, even if you are in a big, dense forest, a path will automatically be made for you. Because anyone who needs knowledge and learning lives in this world.

Do you strive to accomplish this in this way?

 Even if you don't have a roof over your head, you go to school, shivering in the cold, and pick up a book. That is your weapon.q Do you...