Today, people leave their education midway and go after jobs, and after a few days, the child returns home. Dear son and daughter, you yourself should make it possible to enjoy the happiness and sorrow of this life in balance. If you study well and choose a job in the future to live without anyone, then you will be able to spend your entire life happily and successfully. Also, by not choosing that path, you will fall into an abyss from which you will never be able to recover. Even if you have desires, there are duties to be fulfilled and states to be reached. First, we should think about that too. The Buddha once preached,
" Sabbe puthujjana ummatataka "
Every human being in this world is crazy
. So should we behave like crazy or do wrong? Is that the job entrusted to us? No. Parents, we should not be crazy or drive our children crazy. What we should do is try to make our children educated and intelligent by being careful. This is not a task that can be done by one person or one family, but the society must be built through collective efforts. It must start from the family unit. The reason for this is that the majority of the people who suffer in society are the ones who are suffering, and the easiest way to get rid of this situation is to direct the next generation to a right path of life or a higher standard of living through education. Until this happens, we will hear the words that we will never be happy.
The Buddha once preached to a group of people who were complaining that there is no happiness in this world. We can never experience happiness.
Susukham vata jeevama
Verinesu averino
Cherinesu manusesu
Viharama averino
Everyone who wants to live happily should live among those who hate, among those who are angry, and among those who are jealous, as non-hating people, as people who are not angry and not jealous.
Then you will be able to experience the real happiness you are looking for. But if each of you keeps on saying only the word happiness and shouting and saying that you are burning in a pit of coals, you will never be able to experience happiness. Then, to experience that happiness, you will have to get out of the pit of coals and dive into cool water. Otherwise, that person will not be able to experience happiness, comfort, or joy at any moment and will not be able to see the end of this journey of life.
Dear mothers, fathers, sons, and elders, if the path is good, even if it is a long journey alone, if there is strength, courage, luck, and interest, the diligent person will continue to the end of the journey, no matter how many obstacles, conflicts, attacks, scoldings, insults, and insults come to the destination. But the lazy person will never do what he should do. Even if he is told what should not be done, he will not try to do anything other than lie on his bed, which is his favorite bed, even if he understands it. But if there is a certain amount of intelligence or intelligence that is considered to be educated, knowing that a group of socialized people are fools, then he should try to investigate and act carefully. Until that happens, in this social environment, the fools who are considered to be educated will be born among the fools who are considered to be fools and will have to live and die in misery among them. But is there any fruit in that life?
Parents in today's society often try to spend money only for their own pleasures. But they do not have the strength to think that by spending money in this way, the future of their children will be dark. Parents should carefully examine whether the future wishes and goals of their sons and daughters, who have been gifted to society by them, will be satisfied only if all their pleasures and desires are satisfied.
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