Rather than living a life of sorrow that is called happiness,


 Parents in today's society also try to spend money only for their own pleasures. They do not have the strength to think that their children's future will be dark by spending money in this way. Parents should carefully examine whether the future desires and goals of their children, who are gifted to society by them, will be satisfied only if all their pleasures and desires are satisfied.


No matter how much wealth the parents have, and no matter how much knowledge they have, the ability of their children to benefit from all those assets depends on the education and illiteracy of those children. In that case, an educated child will properly spend the assets of his parents, plan his own future well, and also create the future of the children he inherits from him. But no matter how much money an illiterate child receives from his parents, he is unable to benefit from it. Because of the wealth he possesses and his ignorance, he will be respected by many people. This can be clearly seen in today's society. Who tries to live a good life except those who live as people who do not see it? What is the root cause of this? Every person has all the truth and all the necessary settings to make his life successful in his brain. All that is required is to work hard to fulfill future goals and desires based on the experiences he has gained from society and the education he receives through school. As long as he keeps in mind the idea that he cannot do any work in society, he will not be able to experience happiness or satisfaction. If you want to achieve your happiness, the only thing you need to do is to think with your mind, inquire wisely, understand what is good and bad, and engage in the right activities with your healthy body. But today, no matter how much brain people have, due to the delusion and laziness in their minds, they will not be motivated to think further about any task. On that basis, all the activities done with their minds will be paralyzed and they will live their lives as a miserable person who suffers in society. The life they live will be a nuisance and a nuisance for you as well as the socialized environment. This will create poor families in society. This is stated in the Cakkavatthi Sihanada Sutta as follows.


The poor who do not have wealth, the means of earning wealth, increased poverty. Due to the increase in poverty, theft arose. Due to the occurrence of theft, dangerous weapons arose. Due to the occurrence of weapons, murder arose. Due to the occurrence of murder, lying arose. Subsequently, vices such as jealousy, anger, hatred, etc. also increased, and as a result, life expectancy decreased and disasters increased.


When we examine these and other facts, it becomes clear that the only person who destroys the liberation of man is man himself. Even if he is born with a mind that can think, the minds of children will be distorted at a young age due to various misdeeds that occur in the family. A mind that is slightly distorted at a young age will create a distorted person who will be involved in terrible activities in society in the future and a person who will use terrible weapons and engage in acts of murder, theft, etc. in society.


This is stated in the Cakkavatthi Sihanada Sutta, which was well preached by the Lord Buddha, as well as in the Agganna Sutta, which was well preached on the creation of the world. However, since people who know these facts but do not know them will live miserable and helpless lives. After being caught by the tail of a snake, will they know that the snake has the ability to bite them and still go and grab it by the tail? Or do we take the snake by the head and do the necessary work as required? These facts reveal that the social being knowingly goes astray. If we do something bad, do we do the same process knowingly and only then will we suffer? It is up to you to ask yourself and do the right thing.


The main characters in the family unit where a child is born are the parents. Due to the conflicts between the two, the mentality of the children will be broken. That breakdown will darken the entire future of the children. At a time when the children are appearing for exams, they try to calm their minds by going to the temple, chanting various mantras and performing those tasks and giving blessings to the children. They have to do this because the mental stability of the child has collapsed due to the crisis in the family environment. That task is like a mother who is unable to cook rice and tries to bring food from a shop to satisfy her hunger. But who is responsible for that mistake? This should also be examined. Can't we, as high-minded people, refrain from acting like giving dolls to little babies who are crying for milk and crying? Dear parents, because of your reckless misdeeds, your daughter or son's mental freedom will take a dark path. When both parents constantly fight in the house, it is a great problem for the children who are studying. Then that daughter or son will become a depressed person by thinking about it. Then that daughter or son will become a weak person in academic and social activities. How can parents remedy it because of that weakness? They will chant Yantra Mantras all over the country, chanting huniyam and performing awal devol.


But dear parents, you will not be able to pass the exams by just putting Yantras or performing pujas and offerings to your daughter or son. It is possible to pass the exams with flying colors by studying the necessary facts for all the subjects in the same way and through understanding. But it should be understood that one cannot pass the exams by simply visiting temples and enriching the cotton tycoons. If anyone engages in that process, that person is a person of low intelligence. If one inquires about these matters, one can inquire for years. But there is no end to that inquiry. Also, I cannot believe that the result obtained from that inquiry will be the right result.


Let each of us try to spend the end of this life journey happily, to spend that period of time with satisfaction and to behave with the right purpose. Until that happens, all the sons and daughters living in this world will inherit a life of misery, extreme helplessness and no happiness.


Rather than living a life of sorrow that is called happiness, I hope that a group of children will be born who can achieve eternal peace with mental ease and physical satisfaction, and who can shine in this world as educated people and conquer the world in the future. That is my ultimate wish and goal. But I will someday ask myself who in this society is capable of fulfilling and making that wish a reality. I will try to answer that question myself.

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