Do not act as others want you to

 * Do not act as others want you to

*No one kicks a dead dog

*If you do not have problems, you will not measure the steps on the path of success but the steps on the path of failure. This is because problems come to you to strengthen you, not to pull you further back. Therefore, be happy when you have problems. Do not sigh over those problems. This is because you must naturally build yourself up from within.

* Try to turn any weak situation you have into a good situation by taking it as an opportunity. If you have only one arm and one leg, or if you do not have them all, try to take it as an opportunity and live a right life. Otherwise, if you think about what you did not get and curse it, your whole future life will be subject to that curse.

* Challenges come to you only when you are walking on the path of success. Therefore, try to move forward without wavering in the face of obstacles that come your way. It will only do you good.

* A person who has good looks, wisdom and a good mind, and who uses them well, wins the whole universe. But just by having good looks and wisdom, a person will not be able to win the world or even live in the world.

* If he has good looks and wisdom but does not have good minds, he will always be in great sorrow

* If you want to win the world, first become a person who needs to be won.

* Do not be dependent on others. Try to win the whole universe by using your wisdom. As long as you feel that you cannot do anything, you will not be able to do anything.

* Nick is a very unfortunate boy born in Australia in 1982. That's because Nick was born without hands. He had only two small fingers on his feet. When you look at it that way, Nick had only a short body. Therefore, Nick's life from birth to death was a great challenge. Nick did not have two legs or two arms, but he was one of many people who had two legs and two healthy bodies. No person should act as if he has lost his entire life just because he has lost an external physical organ. Just because he has lost a physical organ, it should not be an obstacle to living in this universe. You can earn everything that you do not have. How can you do that? Do not curse what you did not get, but be happy with what you did get and make good use of it. Do not curse what you do not have. Then, by directing your wisdom and mind, a suitable path will naturally be created to walk towards a good life. Nick, who thought he was born with two legs, tried to commit suicide many times. From the fact that the educational authorities did not accept him when he entered school, to walking, eating, drinking, and other normal activities, all were great challenges for him. Nick faced challenges that were a hundred thousand times greater than the challenges that come with our lives, which are made up of all physical organs. When Nick reached the age of understanding, he thought of committing suicide. But it was thwarted, adding great meaning to his entire life. Seeing how he was dying, Nick was motivated to ask and search for how to live. He chose life over death. The end of it was that he was awarded two degrees at once in an educational career that began with a pen and a pencil in his mouth. He has developed a state of mind that allows him to live an independent life, such as swimming, cooking, operating a computer, and operating a mobile phone. Nick has not stopped there, but has gone beyond the state of dependence on others and has not only built a hospital in Australia to treat disabled children, but also uses his financial support to maintain it. Nick is currently an author and speaker, running his own business in California, USA. Life without limbs & Life without limits are the books he has written.

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* Loss is common to all. But emergence is also common to all. But if we do not strive to boast and worry about it just because we have arisen and lost, everything we have will perish and not come into being.

* Do not think about what you have lost, but think only about the little that you have acquired and engage in activities that are considered good in the society that you need. Do not think that you have lost everything just because you have lost some external wealth. It does you harm, not good.

* Be a good citizen in a spherical world where various people live, with a proper pattern of behavior. It keeps you alive. Through it, many people around you create power.

* We cannot please the socialized creature. But you can please yourself. You please yourself. Do not tire yourself out in pleasing others. You can get great satisfaction from it.

* When you have conquered the world amidst insults and slanders, the first to come to you and kiss you and praise you are none other than those who insulted you on your way to success. Therefore, do not regret or clash in the face of insults and conflicts of others. Walk well on the path you need.

* If you are blind by birth, no one pays any attention to you. But if a person who has lost his eyesight and performs everything well, even though he is blind, he will be praised in society. If he is blind but is good at learning and develops wisdom with unwavering determination, he has conquered the entire universe.

* You get from the world only a body and a mind full of ignorance and an empty brain. We should get used to filling that mind full of ignorance with knowledge and sharpening the empty brain with knowledge and handling it well. Otherwise, if you wait for everything to be done by your parents in the world, nothing will happen. You should complete your life as you want.

* You can conquer life and make life comfortable in this world. It does not happen automatically. For that, you have to do many activities within yourself. Then you will get everything you need. Do not keep saying Apply apply no reply. Apply until you get a reply at any moment. Then you will be as happy as if you have conquered the whole world.

* When an obstacle comes, do you fall down and sigh? Do you stand up strong and try to move forward without looking at that obstacle? Do not curse the obstacle, be happy that the obstacle has come.

* Being a big man in a small place and being a small man in a big place are two different concepts. But no matter where you are, if you are doing the right things and making others feel that you exist, many people will rally to protect you. But if you are doing wrong things and trying to make a name for yourself somewhere, many people will rally against you. Therefore, live your life by doing good and making others feel that you exist.